Selfish & Self Centered MIL

I used to have a MIL that is overbearing too. Used to because its now my Ex. I invited my FIL to stay with us initially because he was renting and staying alone. But then my MIL came back from overseas and decided to stay in sg for good and ended up staying w us. she literally took over my house. her stuffs all over the place, boxes unpacked. Her room super packed with stuffs. She would give pushy advices all the time. My ex at that time when I complained, he just keep quiet. He didn't want to get into an argument with my MIL. She would also get into frequent arguments with my FIL that one day, he packed his bag and went overseas to work leaving her with us. All I can say is, having a difficult MIL can be very stressful to Ur relationship with ur husband. It can create a rift with ur husband, as u've mentioned, he's already feeling tired of you complaining about her. I feel it is important for new couples with babies to have a space of Ur own to bring up Ur family. Unless u have a very good relationship with ur in laws, it can be awkward and difficult sometimes. In Muslim teachings, when a man marries, the husband has to now put the wife first before the mother because she is now Ur immediate family, the woman who bears Ur children. I hope ur husband realises how important it is for ur sanity especially after giving birth, if ure too stressed out, u will get post partum depression. That is very dangerous. Plead with ur husband. Let him see how important this is. Try going out and have a good talk outside of the home. Stay strong. I agree staying in the East is the most practical for u and Ur job.

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💔 :( my situation is different but i feel your pain because my mil is quite overbearing too. It’s always not easy dealing with someone else’s mother who has some influence over how you live. Ranting wise i find theres a limit to sharing with husbands because they are sandwiched in between. I rant to other mummies and my parents instead for better mental health! If you want i’m here to listen to your rant :) (im staying in tamp) I hope your husband will see that while he has to respect his parents, he now has to protect you and his new family unit (you + bb). Keep your stance and don’t buckle because you have your own life to live. It’s a good sign your hubby don’t quite agree with his mum, so both of you should have the final say and decision on where you live, your house, your furniture and kids! She had her chance to own her house, raise her kids, now is your turn to live yours! I hope as a couple you both will learn to manage her.. Better faster move to tampines so it’ll be more mafan for her to travel and maybe you will see her less.

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To me, she dont get to decide what u both wants. Have a gd discussion with ur husband without mentioning ur Mil and her concerns. Try not to get too intensed during conversations with the thoughts of her. Discuss as a couple abt ur teamwork needs. At the end of the day, after u apply for home in Tampines she would have no choice but to follow ur Sil and take care of grandkids unless she willingly follow u and takes care of ur kids instead, which I will worry abt the way she wil treat ur kids cos of maybe she feeling upset w the whole arrangement. Discuss buying a home ASAP after giving birth and location is indeed a big factor for u and husband for work convenience and child caregiving. She is not the one going to work to support and she dont want to care for ur kids. She wil be fine at ur Sil. It's just her pettiness.

Walao this kind hear already also angry! So stupid! MIL divorcee, SIL single mom. Is it no man in life then will make stupid decisions? Hate this kind! If can slap or chase them out i will. This kind must instil fear in them! DON'T let your MIL move into your house at all cost. Your baby, your rule. Your house, your rule. Lagi you don't have to explain your standpoint. Seriously MILs are the reason marriage fall apart. Both MIL & SIL marriage already a failure, please don't come mess with yours. Stupid women.

Just ignore her and get your house in Tampines! And don’t keep any room for her please! Never stay with this type of MIL.. If she can treat you and hubby like this now, I can’t imagine what worse she will do to your baby.. Maybe the next time you can tell her “you can sell away your current house and ask you dau to sell hers then both of you can together buy a bigger house and more bigger than mine” - I’m sure she will be burning inside. Cheer up mummy!

why not you apply your own BTO and move out leh. if My MIL ,I kill her at the spot lol 😆 now even my MIL and FIL very good, no silbling around I fought with my husband and moved out buy my own resale 4toom flat and live happily, now I got my first pregnancy and having own family Jia you and fight to get for it. Your husband love you ,definitely follow you, but you need an very good strategy and action.

Your mil need to accept the fact that you are married to her child and your husband also need to realise that HE IS MARRIED. What is wrong with mens these days? Mine too, prioritised his mother. I voiced out and now he's saying i'm a bad wife. Then he divorced me. 😑

why bother so much? just do things the way you want and you'll be happy. continue thinking about other people's feelings, especially this kind of people, you will only suffer yourself.