Stress And Depression

Hello, I'm 21 and 3 months pregnant. This is my first baby. I know the first trimester is very critical for the development of my baby but I've been really stressed and depressed since the very beginning of my pregnancy. It's because I feel like a failure for being pregnant this early. My family was really disappointed with me but eventually accepted the baby and supports me since I still don't have a job but I already graduated last April this year. Sometimes, I can't help to be depressed because my pregnancy was very sudden and I feel like I won't be successful because of what happened to me ? I also don't want to feel this way since it will affect my baby. I need some advices mommies. Thank you.

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Buti ka nga po nakapag tapos na. Ako nga po 21 and graduating. I'm on my 36 weeks na. Nahirapan din ako sabihin sa kanila nung una. Na depress din ako kasi grabe yung expectation sa akin pero kinaya ko para sa baby ko. Di naman yan ibibigay kung hindi para sayo. Oo marami kang maririnig na masasakit na salita. Judgements from other people. Nakakawala ng confidence mga tingin nila pero kelangan natin kayanin. Ginawa natin to eh. Tsaka wala naman silang pake kasi wala naman silang pinakain sa atin at hindi naman sila magpapakain sa baby natin. Stay strong. Always pray lang and always think about your baby bago ka gumawa ng mga bagay. šŸ˜Š

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4y ago

Correct sis, minsan naka baba talaga ng self esteem but we are strong kasi pinili parin natin na ibuhay si baby unlike others na inaabort nila šŸ˜” thanks sis sa advice šŸ˜Š