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im 16 and find out i was pregnant i wasn't really ready to have a baby at a young age especially im still studying.. Hanggang ngayon di pa din alam ng parents ko and my family it was so hard I've been stressing myself everyday and every night crying how am i suppose to tell them now I am at my 23 weeks and had an ultrasound ang find out its a girl. I never been felt so happy that someone is living inside me is healthy and fighting to live despite of my depression kumakapit si baby ko at di niya ko iniiwan. I never regretted on keeping her because she's a now a part of me even though ang bilis ng pangyayari. Ngayon nagiipon pa din ako ng lakas para sabihin sa family ko for sure sa umpisa lang sila magagalit. But you know i realized that im still blessed because having a baby is a big blessing that'll come to you and im still thankful to Lord hindi niya kami pinapabayaan dalawa :))

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Wow! Congrats! Been in the same situation 10 years ago. I was only 17 then. Had a hard time to confess because my father is super duper strict. My husband and I decided to elope because I was afraid my father might hurt me or kick me out of the house haha! But I was so wrong. I realized how our parents can love us unconditionally despite of all the heartaches. 3 days after the elopement, they asked me to go home, we discussed about the baby, our wedding, our plans for the future. Still recall when he talked to me in private, asking me if I was in good terms with my in-laws, if I still have an allowance. They accepted me and the situation whole-heartedly. My siblings also kept on telling me that my baby isnt out of unwanted pregnancy, rather, it's an "unexpected pregnancy." After 10 years, wow, all is well. It's a beautiful memory.

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