If kayo ang papipiliin, big or small party for baby's first birthday?

If the budget permits, I'd go for a big party. I threw a big party for my son's first birthday, but since we only have few relatives and friends who live nearby, nasayang lang ung preparation. The event was supposed to accommodate around 100 pax but only less than 30 people arrived. I felt a bit sad for my son kasi I really wanted it to be grand but only a few visitors came to celebrate with us. But I'm still happy on the other hand because I was able to give him the party I wanted.