I watched a lot of birthing videos when I was due the first time around -- it helped me prepare. My sister in law refuses to do that, she says it freaks her out. What do you think? Did watching birthing videos help you?

it totally depends from person to person. i am never comfortable watching birthing videos, and i think it is better for me to read about it and learn more, than watching it for real. on the other hand, my friend found it very helpful and watched it before both her babies were born. let your SIL prepare for the birth the way it makes her comfortable, as what worked for you may not necessarily work for her, and let her find her own way.