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I was busy preparing for dinner in the kitchen for the whole family when my baby cried. The baby was not crying continuously. My husband was in the living room playing game on his handphone. His father came by and said twice very loudly :"wah, noone cares for you ah." I heard already very upset. I am busy and not shaking my legs doing nothing. What does he meant by noone cares for my baby? This is not the first time he said such thing. Usually I close my ears and ignore him but am afraid one day I cannot take it and will tell him off. I am also angry with my husband for not doing what he should, giving other people a chance to shoot us.And if my fil wants to say, shouldnt he shoot his son instead?

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Can feel u.. normally my pil also will said a lot of things like u wake up so early and papa mama still sleep (even I already wake up but still in room), hungry liao la (even I just feed her an hour ago), papa mama bad because not let you watch TV, must carry her, she will fall down... I know sometimes they speak out unintentionally but I really stressed and feel like they blamed me... I keep this for myself for few months and my hb also not sure why I not happy and he felt me no longer patient.. After that I really voiced out to my pil once they make some comments else I think I will depression. Maybe you try to talk to your husband (although I didn't tell my hb as normally he will just keep quiet or just said my parents is not educated make me more angry), if he not do anything then I think you should voice out.

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