Hoping for a 2nd chance

I just want to share my problem gusto ko lang magkaron ng kadamay o ng payo sa pinag dadaanan ko ngayon. Hindi ko na alam ang gagawin ko kung itutuloy ko pa ba ang pakikisama sa asawa ko alam kong meron siyang kabit at kasalanan ko kung bakit siya nag kaganun dahil din sa nagkaroon din ako ng affair sa iba noon at nalaman niya hindi ko siya masisisi kung bakit siya ganun ngayon dahil alam kong ako din ang dahilan, kagabi nag usap kami at sinabi niya na madami binago sa kanya yung babae na yun at nag pupursige siya dahil May gusto siyang marating yung babae niya ang nag push sa kanya nun sobrang sakit marinig yun galing sa kanya at iyak lang ang naisagot ko, sinabi din niya sken na bawiin ko siya dahil sobrang napamahal na siya dun sa babae, ano po ba pwede kong gawin para bumalik ulit yung pagmamahal na yun? im in 9months preggy at naghihintay nalang kung kelan lalabas si lo. Sana may makapansin ng post ko na ito.

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His actions reflect that he had not TOTALLY FORGIVEN YOU and he is using the girl to have his revenge on you. He loves you, its clear and he is only using the girl to hurt you and to win him back. Its clear kasi from his actuations na he is totally hurt when you cheated on him and that he developed low self esteem kaya parang he wants you to win him back para somehow ma feel niya ma hes important and that you regretted cheating him in the first place. Mommy it may be sad but that is the consequences of our actions. Sin has its consequences and who we are to judge you? We also have our own imperfections. Siguro you must focus on the root cause of the problem. Unless he will forgive you TOTALLY, your relationship will never ok. Magiging unfair din sa iyo na gawin niyang "excuse" ang kasalanan mo dati dornhim to continue cheating on you. The challenge is in him actually. Is he willing to forgive you and let go of the past totally? To cheat will not cure the problem. He muat be intentional to save your relationship. If you notice na hindi talaga siya maka move on from that past sin of yours, its better for you to go..Painful it maybe mommy pero that is the reality kasi. It takes two to tango. It takes both efforts yo make the relationship work. Ma susufocate and ma burn out ka in the end if ikaw lng ang lumalaban. If he really loves you, he will never let you go. If you two àre determined enough to save the relationship, you can join marraige retreats organized by some religious organizations. This will greatly help you both towards your inner healing. God bless po

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