I think that my husband find his work more important than us ? even our lo birthday he also want to work instead of accompanying us..

I think many husbands are like this. My husband worked so late the other day that he stayed over in office!! I just don't understand how can one with a family and kid at home choose work over coming home to us. But it is true sometimes they don't have a choice and they need to show their efforts in order to secure their position. Sometimes I tell my husband maybe it is time for him to look for a new job. It is sad and frustrating. I won't allow it to become a habit. Once a while choose work over family I am fine but if he is like that all the time I will let him know his priority is perhaps wrong and maybe he needs to talk to his boss. At the end of the day our kids do not need material or branded stuffs from us. They need us and our time