Is breastfeeding worth it?

I just think post partum is hell and a lot tougher than the actual giving birth. And breastfeeding is the main cause of it. I mean not only it doesn't allow you to sleep, it causes you physical and mental pain. It feels like torture. I cannot wait for my baby to turn 6 months because I can finally stop bf. I really don't think there's much enjoyment to it. Like alright I like to see when my son is latching on to me but hey there are so many other ways to bond that doesn't cause my chest to hurt. I get sharp pain ever so often in my breast. It feels like someone is sticking needles into them. And then, the breast pads are so uncomfortable to wear outside. Why are they so scratchy? They ruin my mood instantly. Also my breast feels so tender most of the time that even a light touch feels uncomfortable. I also hate showering now because it hurts my breast. Even wrapping a towel over my body causes discomfort. Can someone just tell me if the antibodies in BM is worth all this agony? Can someone shed light scientifically if it is superior of all milk and helps with baby's immunity? Bf is a nightmare

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Oh, mama, I hear you. Postpartum can feel like navigating through a storm, especially with all the challenges breastfeeding can bring. It's completely normal to feel overwhelmed, exhausted, and even in pain during this time. But let's take a moment to talk about whether breastfeeding is worth it. First off, I want to reassure you that you're not alone in feeling this way. Many mothers struggle with the physical and emotional toll that breastfeeding can take. It's okay to feel frustrated and even resentful at times. Now, onto the science bit. Breast milk is truly amazing stuff. It's packed with antibodies, enzymes, and nutrients that are specifically tailored to meet your baby's needs. These antibodies help boost your baby's immune system, providing protection against infections and diseases. Breastfeeding has been linked to lower rates of respiratory infections, ear infections, allergies, and even obesity later in life. But I understand that knowing all this might not make the pain and discomfort magically disappear. It's important to prioritize your well-being too. If breastfeeding is causing you significant pain and distress, it's okay to seek help and explore other options. In the meantime, there are things you can do to make breastfeeding more comfortable. Have you tried using lanolin cream or gel pads to soothe your sore nipples? And those scratchy breast pads you mentioned – maybe try switching to a softer, more comfortable brand. As for the sharp pains, it might be worth consulting with a lactation consultant or healthcare provider to rule out any underlying issues like thrush or blocked ducts. Remember, bonding with your baby is about so much more than just breastfeeding. Snuggles, cuddles, skin-to-skin contact, talking, singing – all these are wonderful ways to connect with your little one. And if, despite your best efforts, breastfeeding still doesn't feel right for you, that's okay too. Fed is best, whether it's breast milk, formula, or a combination of both. Hang in there, mama. You're doing an amazing job, even on the toughest days. And if you ever need someone to talk to or vent to, we're here for you. Mama's Choice $18 voucher 👉🏻 https://invl.io/cll6she

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