I resigned from my work to be a SAHM this year, n hubby said since I'm a SAHM , I should be doing 100% of the housework n taking care of children n cooking etc. He won't lay a finger to help me cos he said he is in charge of bringing back the money for family .. is it supppsed to be like that ? How about his bonding time with the kids ? I'm so sad ?

I feel this is a very common mindset as u can see from the men in this thread. One of the very reasons I wouldn't want to be a SAHM. Even maid have once a week leave. I employ helpers to care for the kids when I am working but I also won't just leave the kids to them when I come home! My hub and I are their parents and we make it a point to bond and care for them too. If u can't change your husband's MCP mindset, better go back to work to right the imbalance.