I resigned from my work to be a SAHM this year, n hubby said since I'm a SAHM , I should be doing 100% of the housework n taking care of children n cooking etc. He won't lay a finger to help me cos he said he is in charge of bringing back the money for family .. is it supppsed to be like that ? How about his bonding time with the kids ? I'm so sad ?

Man words are hurtful. I understand that. But I am the one telling my husband that he will bring money back home concentrate on working and I will be the one in charge of the house taking care of baby and all housework. But he has to use his time at home to bond with baby. That's all I ask for. But after a long time he will help u out abit when he is free.. From the start I nv expect my husband to help abit at all, because I don't want disappointment that's why I don't have expectations. So when he actually help me out I will feel happy about it even it is taking out the trash only. Mens are not good at housework or taking care of baby. Let them work their a** off outside and we as a sahm just concentrate on our baby and ourselves. I am sad and really hurt before and even feel like hurting my baby because I feel my husband don't care, I know my mental is going to break down I told myself to stand up for myself and my baby.