I resigned from my work to be a SAHM this year, n hubby said since I'm a SAHM , I should be doing 100% of the housework n taking care of children n cooking etc. He won't lay a finger to help me cos he said he is in charge of bringing back the money for family .. is it supppsed to be like that ? How about his bonding time with the kids ? I'm so sad ?

I hate man say that and Sorry to say that my Husband is the same mentality when I was on maternity leave before I hire helper. I got depression with pumping milk and house chores. I have to takecare baby plus 4 years old Son. I almost jumped down the building as he very demanding. I was exhausted and I tell myself I have to work outside and not stay at home. I get help from my in law and mum now to supervise the baby and helper. Speak to him if you can. Sit down to discuss. House chores is tiring Than work outside.