I am also a Full Time SAHM. In the beginning, my husband also have the same mentality but after a few "talks" and a few MIA acts from me to left the two girls with him. He is now doing his share of house chores as a role model for our kids; it is everyone's responsibility to keep our home clean and tidy. He need to spend quality time with the kids to parent them for bonding; his responsibility as a Father to the kids not a helping hand to me.
I suggest talking to him in the role of a member of this household instead of he "helping" you.
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