I really hate my mother in law. She gets jealous easily. She made such a big fuss and cried when my hubby gave me a gift for wedding anniversary. My hubby is at his wits end. We bring my in laws out regularly and buy things for her occasionally too. How do I tell her to grow up?

A danger zone for the husband as well...possibility of being treated as a punching bag from both sides :) BTW, to answer your question, please be kind to your husband and try to understand his situation as well ;) Try to talk to your mother-in-law directly or if you have a supporting father in law, use may be that channel to try n relax your mother in law.