i feel liek i don't love my son...

I prefer to stay anonymous... what is wrong with me... I don't feel a strong sense of love for my child, unlike other mothers. I really feel just normal, even tending not to love. I've never really liked children. But I am still responsible, I breastfeed, take care of everything that is needed. I just don't love. No one knows this, including my husband. But I think he might have noticed, because he once asked, "Why don't you ever post photos of our child (on socials)? Unlike other mothers. You do like posting (on socials) a lot..." I just gave him a casual answer, I said I didn't want to invite negative comments, but actually, it's because I don't feel it's special. Is it wrong? But I do take care of him.

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Could it be when you are younger you took care of alot of babies/toddlers younger sibilings? I used to take care of neighbour's toddler bcos my neighbour just happily ask me to bring the toddler down to the playground along with me, that time im still in primary school. I also feel that i do not like babies and will nv have one. But after having my baby im not like that anymore :)

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