Melawat ketika berpantang

I nak tanya, since I akan melalui fasa berpantang tak lama lagi, ada ke orang yg agak2 takde common sense datang melawat mommies & babies ketika dalam pantang?😂 Kecuali parents & parents in law la. Cause I honestly am not expecting anyone to my house during my confinement phase EXCEPT my CL, my parents/in law/family terdekat such as siblings only (but not the whole anak beranak etc la). Bukan apa, zaman skrg kan byk disease and virus. And setiap org tak sama cara kita jaga hygiene. Some people bukan ada common sense like nak mandi dulu sebelum visit ke apa kan.. so macam mana mommies yg dalam pantang control your visitors ya? Atau kalau ada yg melawat tu, macam mana you all control whom and whom je utk bagi pegang your newborn? Thanks in advance!

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Hi sis, i tak bersalin lg..tapi awal2 lagi husband cakap nak i pantang di rumah sendiri sebab tknk terima mana mana org visit except my family & family in law..tapi bila i bagitahu my family especially my mom yg i akan berpantang di rumah sendiri, my mom marah sbb nnti risau i bentan la itu la ini la..but i know my mom nk sngt i pntang dkt kg supaya mudah sedara mara dtg visit😅😅tapi husband i tak setuju and i pun tak berapa setuju..so i buat keras i je pantang kat rumah sendiri sebab i fikir baby je..lg2 zaman now banyak virus and kdg2 org lain takda common sense , timing melawat pun kdg2 tak kena..lagi 1 i nak berpantang dengan tenang😆..macam husband i dia dah siap pesan dekat family in law yg selama pantang ni tak digalakkan visit dlu..alhamdulillah family in law i sngt2 memahami😍 mcm i , cara i nk control org2 nk dtg visit baby ni..i buat status ws awal2 yg i tak galakkan dtg visit baby during confinement phase🤣 so takdela mengguris kan hati sngt kan😂 anything happen kt baby kite jugak yg kena tanggung sis..so biarlah org nak terasa ke apa sekarang asalkan baby kite sihat☺️

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1y ago

Yes dear. Actually both my husband and I pun discussed the same thing. I mmg berpantang kat rumah sendiri & hire CL. My mom can come visit me everyday no problem cause my mom living 3-4 minutes away je from me. Kat rumah my parents pun its just my parents so I tak worry, cause paling2 pun my parents je dtg visit me & diorang mmg very hygienic. And family I & in law pun sgt understanding cause very supportive bila I requested for CL. Senang. Nak berpantang sendiri mmg takla sbb I takde experience that’s why I prefer ambil CL supaya lebih manageable. Yg I risau IF ada visitors selain itu la. But I mmg ada highlighted to my in laws dah also, I tak expect visitors la during my confinement phase. But still, you will never know what’s coming! Hahahaha 🤣 So I mcm tgh fikir la how to avoid people from touching my baby. If I duduk confinement centre okay sikit sbb baby dlm glass room dia. Confirm2 org tak boleh pegang. Can see only 😆 probably kalau closest family member I akan bagi la tg