Need your advise.

I am in a relationship for a year now. Mga 3 months kami, nalaman ko na he's married and not even separated. Sila pa pala ng asawa nya.. umiwas ako, umuwi ako sa probinsya, kasi alam kong mali. Kaso sobrang mahal ko. After 3 months ng paghihiwalay namin. Pikit-mata akong nakipag balikan. Yeah alam kong mali ako, tanga ako. What do i do? Mahal ko e. Kaso mga momsh. Ayoko na.. nakikipag hiwalay na ko sa kanya. Pagod na ko sa thought na naninira ako ng ibang pamilya, tho palagi nyang sinasabi na matagal na silang sira, na hindi nya na mahal yung babae, nag-sstay sya para sa mga anak nya kasi itatago ng babae yung mga anak nya sa kanya. Wala akong peace of mind mula nung makipag balikan ako sa kanya. Palagi akong worried na baka mahuli kami.. tuwing uuwi sya sa babae, hindi ako naniniwalang walang nangyayari sa kanila. Ayoko na kaso hindi nya kk tinitigilan. 😭 Gusto ko na din matapos na to. Hindi ko deserve maging pangalawa lang. Enlighten me mga momsh. What to do with him? Pls do not judge me. Alam ko naman na mali ako in the first place, nagmahal lang ako.

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My advice is to stay away from him. I don’t know him but by the looks of it, sinasabi nya lang yun para hindi mo sya iwanan. The fact that he still goes home to his wife meaning he’s still a husband and a father to that home. I won’t judge you because it is human to make mistake but since alam mo na and you have the option to leave. Leave him. Drop him. Don’t do wife duties kung hindi ikaw ang wife. In the end, it’s going to come around and bite you. Ikaw na nagsabi you don’t deserve to be a second option. There are plenty fish in the sea. Masakit sa ngayon but palagi mong iisipin ang worth mo bilang isang babae. Kung nagsasabi man sya ng totoo na hindi na sila okay which I doubt, don’t be the reason why they had to really split up. Umiwas ka. Iwanan mo sya. Change your number. Block him. Women uplift each other not drag each other down. Wag mong hayaan maging dahilan ka kung bakit nasisira ang isang pamilya. Hoping you find the courage to really leave him.

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Anonymous

4y ago

Welcome Momsh! Marami ka pa makikilala, I’m sure there’s someone that will make you happy kaysa dito na miserable ka and uneasy ka wala kang peace of mind. 🙂

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