Gender disappointment

i only wanted 1 child due to my hubby age and i desperately wanted a boy. For my hubby he didnt mind as long as healthy..i was so dissapointed that i cried when i found out its a girl. My daughter turned out to be the biggest blessing..so loving n caring..now i pregnant with 2nd child by accident and guess what i praying for another girl! My friend who has a boy says she wishes for a girl cause her boy doesnt show any affection..Life is so funny sometimes, we always want what we dont hv.