I am so frustrated of everyone giving me free advices as to how and what to do for my baby. Even if if am doing the right way someone or the other has to comment to do it their way. I am tried! What do I do?

Yes mommy, it IS super tiring and irritating. we all hear you. there are 2 mtds of dealing... Flight or fight. Flight as in fly / run and move away if someone gives you her 2 cents worth. Fight - argue back or say something to counter them. Depending on who is the "free adviser", I flight or fight respectively. If it is some kaypoh stranger or acquaintance, i tell them off. if it is a relative u see once in a blue moon, i just give an awkward smile n walk away. for my mil, i hate hearing her old school old style advice. dunno why if the same advice was given by her vs someone i like, i will react differently. for mil, i always rebutt her because her tone is all wrong n authoritative n demanding n nagging n irritating. whereas the same advice can come across nicely n calmly n soothingly by say an elder colleague or someone else neutral. if u choose not to walk away when someone gives u an unsolicited advice, then think of a simple straightfwd clear cut yet polite one liner sentence to shut them up. for eg, i often tell the old sch relatives "Times have change, things have evolved, parenting style n methods must keep up too. thanks for your tip anyway." then change subject or simply walk away!! all the best. you are not alone. ask ur hubby to help.u fend off unsolicited advice.