I find that for the past year, I'm always angry at my husband. Whatever he does just irritates the hell out of me. What can I do to stop feeling this way? I used to be so in love with him.

Sometimes it could be that one gets too familiar and comfortable with the other person and expects more from the person. You may think that he should anticipate and do certain thing while he is totally unaware of what your expectations are. This would lead to buildup of frustrations. Also, the negative events (such as getting irritated, frustrated and angry) often tend to stand out more as compared to the positive ones. I’m pretty sure there were instances where you really appreciated what he did but those are likely to be taken for granted and dismissed. Since you are aware of this, make an effort to note down little things that you may have overlooked. Also, have a chat with him to see if he also feels the same. I suggest just doing this little exercise for a few days. Have a notebook/phone with you and note down anything that he did for you (that you may have taken for granted for). For example, “hubby prepared morning coffee for me”, “hubby bought dinner so I did not have to cook” etc. Other suggestions I have would be to have a date night and try to “reconnect”. Or, simply adjusting your expectations for him would probably help too.
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