i feel so guilty that i have to place my son into child care.. from morning to night.. as i have to return to work on jan.. but we been trying to put him in now so by jan, hope that i can work in peace.. is it alright to leave him and have some of my 'me' time now? i feel so guilty doing so.. he play and awhile will cry for mommy.. is good that he goes to child care right? to learn new things and make friends.. he is 33 months now..

If my mom is not helping me with my no1, I definitely put him in childcare! Even with a maid, I can't manage his energy... he's constantly looking for someone to play with at home or asks to go out or find his own entertainment by pouring things on e floor and asks to mop... shakes the doors... etc... LOL!!! He's going to pre-nursery next year . It's a 3 hour Programme. My Mom insist he don't go childcare so she happily tires herself out Everyday to look After him. Haha..