Gender Reveal

I FEEL SO BAD. Pls hear me out. I'm currently pregnant & soon to be a first time mom. My child is gonna be the 1st apo & 1st great grandchild on my side. I really want to have an INTIMATE gender reveal - like gusto ko sana kami lng ng partner ko & we'll share a video surprise with my family after. The problem is: My elder sis wants an intimate gender reveal na kasama sila mama & papa. Dont get me wrong, I LOVE THEM SO MUCH & I know how excited they are for my baby soon. But ako kase gusto ko simple & private moment lng na gender reveal with my husband. Idk but even before I got married, I wanted everything to be very simple & unique. Ngayon lng naman nauso yung gender reveal party tlaga. Huhu ayoko ko kase yung may maraming balloons, cupcakes, etc. Simple & intimate lng talaga gusto ko. I TOLD MY SISTER I'M OK WITH HER PLAN. :) This was months ago na sinabi ko she can be the planner so I ended up not telling her what I rlly wanted kase I dont want to hurt her feelings. Just today, we talked about it again. And na express ko unintentionally na MY 1ST PLAN WAS to have a gender reveal with my husband only. I wanted us to go back to the place where he proposed to me. I even expressed na gender reveal usually depends on the couple tlaga. But then I told her it would be difficult without a planner. I made things worse ba? I FEEL BAD for sharing my initial plan kase I think she was disappointed na yun pala yung plan ko tlaga. I dont know if valid lng ba na gusto ko yung 1st plan ko or am i insensitive for wanting that? :/ Bakit pa kse nauso yang gender reveal parties eh T.T