Narcissist LIP 🤦🏻‍♀️

I don't know if it's just my hormones pero lately naiinis ako sa partner ko. Wala nang ibang kwento kundi about sa kanya, about sa work and minsan parang lagi nya binibida na in favor lahat sa kanya sa work pati mga boss. I mean I get it na nag eexcel sya ngayon sa work and excited lang sya magkwento and I'm proud of him pero everytime magkkwento sya, nagpapaligo ako ng bata, nagpapakain, nagliligpit nag aasikaso ng pagkain like I'm already drowning in motherhood kamustahin mo naman ako lol tapos nakatingin lang sya as I look so tired and sweaty habang nagkkwento sya ng stuff about him? Napaka insensitive. Wala naman masama magkwento pero sana i-timing na nakapahinga ako or relax di ung nagkanda pagod pagod na ko tas nakatingin lang habang nagkkwento napaka self centered. Tapos pag nagsalita ako about my feelings magmumuka akong sensitive. He doesnt even listen to me pag ako nagkkwento or nagrarant pero pag sya dapat all ears. We rarely have a serious conversation. And when we do, pag ako nagsasalita, pilit lng response nya pero pag sya na nagsalita it's always about him. I don't feel like we're partners anymore. Dalawa na anak namin isang 3yo old and isang 6mos old pero parang housemate nalang ganern lol kaloka. Doesn't even help me take care of the kids kahit rest day man lang haaay. Siguro isa to sa mga reason why maraming naghihiwalay na mag asawa kahit maliliit palang mga anak nila. Honestly I don't feel appreciated, heard, and seen. I have a life before I met him, I was working, I'm independent and I'm not used na magdepend sa ibang tao. I used to pamper myself everytime mastress but now it's totally different and everyday it gets harder. I give my 100% to everyone to the point na nothing's left for me. Ang hirap hirap maging nanay but it's the most rewarding job in the world. Sana lang ung mga lalaki mauntog at maging sensitive sa feelings nating mga nanay na nag give-up at nagparaya para matutukan ang mga bata. Nag offer pa one time na palit kami sya sa mga bata at ako magwork. Hello? Di nga makapagpalit ng diaper eh. Gusto nyo yon? Lol nakakaloka #partnerproblems

Maria

Mommy of 2 lovely little girls

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Been there mamshie. Pero thanks God ok na kami ni hubby. Before kasi ganyan sya to the point na naghiwalay kami ng 2 beses. Co-parenting kami, civil pero walang ahem kahit nasa isang bahay lamg kami. It took 4 years before we decided to give it a shot again kasi nga lumalaki na yung anak namin. But he changed a lot now. We talked all about our indifferences, goal namin for our family and the mistakes that we've made in the past lahat lahat kalimutan na, walang ungkatan- move on na to the next chapter. To be honest, it took me a year bago tlga bumalik yung kilig ko and amor for him and yun na nga, may ahem na kmi ulit since pagdating sa s*x di sya namimilit. Respect nya ako. He waited for the time kung kelan ready na tlga ako. Then the same year namatay ate ko, after 3 years kapatid nman nya namatay thats the time that we decided to give our son a sibling kc mahirap pla pag only child. So ayun nga, masusundan na after 11 years. (EDD is Dec 6) Let God be the center of your lives. Open communication and respect ung boundary of each member of the family bata man or adult. Sorry napahaba 😅 God bless po sa lahat.

Magbasa pa

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Home Baby Care i dont know if hormones pero lately naiinis ako sa partner ko wala nang ib