I am wondering why my wife keeps saying that being a stay at home mum is such hard work. I am not trolling here - but i frankly dont understand. Seems simple enough to me. I have taken care of my kids and home all weekend before and it's definitely no where as stressful as having a job. Our kid is 11 months and is formula fed. We live in a 4 rm flat.

I am a SAHM. My everyday routine work is like wake up 7am to prepare food for my 13mths, food must be ready by 9. Feed him, 1 hr later bathe him, 2 hrs later give milk(formula), coax him to nap. Den work still continue.. Washing dishes, wipe the stove. Clean baby toys. But I will still take nap as well if I'm tired. After bb woke up.. Change him, warm the porridge, feed him, entertain him. 3 hrs later, he will hungry and I need to feed him, waiting to bathe him, entertain him, till 10pm, give milk, coax him to sleep. After he fall into deep sleep, I need to prepare ingredients for tomorrow porridge, do laundry. Finally.. I able to take shower.