I am wondering why my wife keeps saying that being a stay at home mum is such hard work. I am not trolling here - but i frankly dont understand. Seems simple enough to me. I have taken care of my kids and home all weekend before and it's definitely no where as stressful as having a job. Our kid is 11 months and is formula fed. We live in a 4 rm flat.

Maybe because she had to take care 24 hours a day so she feel is a hard work whereas in the night time most probably only wife will wake up. whereas men like us had to work outside and only spend little time with kids and we feel easy but overall if it's long term kids might not be as easy as we think. because she might had house work such as cooking ,washing of clothes and maybe cleaning .. So it also actually depends on individual