I am wondering why my wife keeps saying that being a stay at home mum is such hard work. I am not trolling here - but i frankly dont understand. Seems simple enough to me. I have taken care of my kids and home all weekend before and it's definitely no where as stressful as having a job. Our kid is 11 months and is formula fed. We live in a 4 rm flat.

depends on both workloads. Being a SAHM, it means you are on 24hrs standby(like every 3hrs feeding).Lack of sleep n rest. Not only that, you have laundry, housechores, cook. Beside entertaining the baby, you also need to entertain the husb. Sometimes, you go no me time at all. While husband only does one thing which is work. Understand that work also hard work cuz use physical/mental and some wife lets their husb sleep while she wakes up wee hrs handling baby. I salute to those women who goes to work and also handling a baby after work and wee hrs.