Feeling Bad

I been feeling very tired during my pregnancy , currently in my 17 weeks . Feeling giddy , nauseous , lower abdominal cramps/pain sometimes during the day. And I got no mood to work at all, but I can’t keep taking MC / leave as I have used up quite a bit of it during my 1st 2 mths of my pregnancy as I have very bad morning sickness. Now sometimes I will force myself to go work when I’m not feeling well which only make myself depress more , some of my colleagues (who never get pregnant and is not married)understands me and will let me rest inside the office but some (who is a mother and father) don’t , they will just give you faces or give bad remarks when you rest inside or when you took MC/Leave ,and cause I’m working in service line which makes things worse and I don’t always get good customers and was even shouted at once when I’m at work . I still got 5more mths to go and I don’t know how long more I can endure . I’m really tired

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This is what I am feeling right now. During my 1st trimester which has an ECQ, it was my advantage to take some rest. However, it also results poor performance even working at home. My managers (male) don’t usually understand what we are going through. I also dont know how to manage this kind of toxic work. But always think of your baby. My husband wants me to file resignation. He said that “what do you want? Losing a job or losing a child?” 😢😢😔😔

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