Feeling Bad

I been feeling very tired during my pregnancy , currently in my 17 weeks . Feeling giddy , nauseous , lower abdominal cramps/pain sometimes during the day. And I got no mood to work at all, but I can’t keep taking MC / leave as I have used up quite a bit of it during my 1st 2 mths of my pregnancy as I have very bad morning sickness. Now sometimes I will force myself to go work when I’m not feeling well which only make myself depress more , some of my colleagues (who never get pregnant and is not married)understands me and will let me rest inside the office but some (who is a mother and father) don’t , they will just give you faces or give bad remarks when you rest inside or when you took MC/Leave ,and cause I’m working in service line which makes things worse and I don’t always get good customers and was even shouted at once when I’m at work . I still got 5more mths to go and I don’t know how long more I can endure . I’m really tired

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I don't think you should worry about that one or two people giving you faces. There are supportive colleagues with you. if you have to rest you have to rest. Think positive. ignore the negatives. you are almost halfway there for a buddle of joy. Take care. Speak to your doctor about your pains and get some medications if available.

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I feel the same. When I discovered I was pregnant, I was working as a trainor, and even had to work early in the morning and very late at night. It was really stressful and very tiresome. They even think that I was just slacking around. Some people really don't understand. Hope you can make it through pregnancy without more stress. Hoping for the best for you.

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Same mommy, don't feel bad po. 17 weeks na din ako ngayon pero worst ako nung first 2 months ko. Pumapasok ako pero lagi akong nasa clinic ng office namin hindi ko pa kasi alam nung time na yun na buntis ako. Napapansin naman ng mgankatrabaho ko na may changes pero they chose not to tell me daw po kasi may hint na daw sila na buntis ako kaya hinayaan nila ako.

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17weeks and 1day, minsan sumasakit din puson ko. at madalas ulo ko right side lang. inom lang palagi ng water. may UTI ako kaya may nireseta na gamot. nararamdaman ko na sila kase tumitigas ang puson ko at parang may bula na pumuputok sa tyan ko. kabilaang side dahil twins sila. nagpa ultrasound ako yung isa cephalic yung isa breech

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Kaya mo yan momshie,🙂. Don't mind those coworkers if yours, they will never understand unless they will be on your shoes, they will always have something to say,so just ignore them and focus on your baby, enjoy the journey. What you feel is what also the baby feels🙂Hindi tayo gagawin nanay ni Lord if hindi natin kaya😉He will take care of us🙂🙂

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same 17 weeks din ako .. I work at my in laws office then they keep telling me im lazy even my husband, they didnt understand how tired i really feel, body pain, my knees, thigh, head, back even my arms are hard to move.. how can i make them understand that this is not easy for me 😭 im always crying because of this. 😔😭

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Hello mummy, I'm feeling the same as you now. I'm 13th wk now.. still a long way to go I know.. sometimes I just count down how many more mths to go before delivery.. just to make myself happier a bit. Company can only understand us this much.. we just have to manage.. dont care abt wat others think.. just try to be positive.. think of your 4 mths maternity leave.

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6y ago

Haha ya I also been counting how many mths I’m left with to enjoy my maternity . Jia you together!

I feel you that's exactly what's going on with me and every day I keep thinking it's gonna be okey and time will pass and honestly I stopped hearing those who complained about my continues sick leaves as I have been suffering with Warning miscarriage and needed to rest .. just focus on the beautiful baby you will have ❤️❤️

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It must be difficult for you. Good to have some understanding colleagues. Talk with your other colleagues. Sometimes, telling them how you feel is better. Mood swings, fatigue are all common. Maybe try sleeping early whenever possible. Keep yourself happy thinking about your lil one inside you, listening to music. Hope all will go well for you at work.

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Im now on the 17th week of my pregnancy journey...moody and easily get grumpy. Kinakalma ko nalng sarili by watching feel good movies...installing some apps about faith and postivity..felt back pain and leg cramps as well..good thing hubby is to the rescue with some organic rub to soothe me..way to go momshies...stay healthy and try to avoid stress.

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5y ago

I'm 16weeks and 5days preggy ndin, at nraramdaman ko na sya.,sobrang nkakatuwa gustong gusto ko syang kinakapa sa my bandang puson pag gumagalaw lalo sa sabi. Parang my nagwiwigle wigle sa tyan ko ang srap sa feeling