How to let others know about your boundaries politely without sounding like a overly protective bitchy mom?

For people I know, I would just tell them my concerns directly because if it’s gonna affect my baby, I don’t see why I can’t stop them. If they gonna be sour over it, then let them be. If it’s some stranger aunty or uncle, I probably won’t even let them have the chance to touch my baby. I personally am okay with perfumes, but makeup no no.

I will make it like a joke 🥸 aiyo ur face why so close to my baby and carry baby back and said hahahaha baby is mine hor u carry awhile will do 😌 but sometimes is really hard. For closest people I will points out the acne issue when they do that.

I will actually stay close to my baby and have wet wipes with me to clean it off straight after, some people will get it. When I am out, I tula him when he is a new born, this way, no one get close 😂 but ultimately, I will tell them.

Yup u sound just like an overly protective mom.... well thats y god gave u a mouth..if ur unhappy with certain things just let the person know very politely.