Husband doesn’t want to have sex with me

Hi I am 21 weeks pregnant. I really feel like having sex with my husband but my husband does not want to have sex with me because he's afraid that it could harm our baby. He doesn't understand my feelings. What should i do?

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We’re on the same boat. I’m 21 weeks pregnant and ever since i got pregnant, my husband wouldn’t have sex with me coz he thinks we might crash our baby. and also, my OB tells us not to do it as well because of my contractions and spotting sometimes. 😢 i guess will just have to wait until the baby’s out. But try talking to him. Im sure you guys can compromise. You should also ask your OB as well first. Because doctors tend to discourage it when you have high-risk pregnancy, because it can put you and your baby at risk. 😢

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