Lost . Hub confessed that he loves his colleague

so Sorry to hear that. A marriage never breaks down within a day…it may be worth thinking about what your husband used to love about u, and what you loved abt husband that made both of u decide to marry in the beginning. What has changed or have come between you both over the years? Don’t mean to assume but usually the most obvious reason (in this case the female colleague coming between u both) is sometimes only the “appearance” and surface. It may possibly stem from a crack that existed and started in your marriage. Knowing where went wrong will probably give you a better picture and what you should next. Your husband is an adult and shld take responsibility like one. Marriage counseling can also help. Let me know if you need some contacts.