Lost . Hub confessed that he loves his colleague

I am 17wks preggy with my 2nd baby. My husband confèssed to me that he loves the female colleague tht he was closed with . This has been on goìng for a good 1.5years. I tried to accept that he likes her, they are closed , but its crossed my limits to kñow thst he loves her.. What should i do...

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Super Mum

Have a good talk with him about whether he still wants to make the marriage work. If he wants to, then what is he prepared to do? Give up the girl? Go for counselling? You also need to think about what your limits are and what you’re willing to do to make it work. It’s a very difficult situation. I hope you get the support you need. Please reach out if you need a listening ear.

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4y ago

Hang in there.. it may be wise to approach a professional counsellor to help both of you sort it out since both are clueless. Jia you!