Mil things

My husband and his parents took my little one out without informing me thinking i won’t find out. but when i found out i got really upset. they didn’t even plan to tell me about the outing at all. i found out through their family chat. i told my husband and my in laws i was very upset that i wasn’t informed on the outing. my in laws got upset with me cause they say i was rude to them? i can’t even say i was upset? and my husband was siding them all the while. he can still go over for birthday party 2 days later and tell me i don’t need to go. i only tell them i was upset about not knowing my little one was gonna go out? i’m the mother am i not suppose to be upset?? but when my mil say she’s upset she don’t get to spend more time with my little one, my husband thinks it’s ok. she’s just showing her feelings. i mean?!?!! i’m so so depressed. i really don’t think this marriage can work out. ☹️