My husband and i seldom see each other due to work schedule and he seldom have time for the kids. We did not have any topic to talk about even when we got the chance to talk. If he is on leave he will spend time playing with his phone. I understand that he is working hard for the family and he needs his own time to play games or see videos but i cant help feeling that my life without him made no difference. over these years he changed a lot in terms of temper and we quarrelled a lot until now we dont even care to say anything to each other. I kept asking myself if this is the man i love and if i will be happier to walk out of his marriage. I feel really lost. I held on becuz of the kids but im not happy every single day.

I agree what Magus Tan said.Woman need LOVE and MAN also need LOVE.Actually I have same situation like you.But I always wait for the right time when I see him happy face and goos mood then I will just talk to him his problem and my feeling.After that then he know his problem but of course not every time he will accept. I am a homemaker but I like to cook and learn baking online.My husband is a self employed businesse,i will help my husband to do some paper work.But I feel that when I help him,he will become lazy then I will feel that " what's does it mean"?I help him,he can sit there play ipad game,watch TV and do nothing. Although I don't work but I still a lot of things to do.I learn from internet so I home bake cake,cny goodies and mooncake for sell. So that I don't want to let him see me down although I don't work but I still can work at home and teach 3 little kids together. Nowadays,not every woman know how to cook.I hv few Singaporean friends they don't cook,their husband complaint abt them.I told them,my husband because my cooking skill. Sometimes the problem not all come from the man,some are from woman but woman don't know. When problem happen,I always thinking " Am I wrong"? If we not wrong so what's the problem?Just find out the answer. Is it because his work problem? Financial problem? Or.... If difficult to talk then don't talk.I know sometimes when the peoblem happenings very difficult calm down and talk but you can " message him " like me,let him know what you want? 有些事情真的很难开口那就用写的吧! Hope you all the best.加油。