My husband and i seldom see each other due to work schedule and he seldom have time for the kids. We did not have any topic to talk about even when we got the chance to talk. If he is on leave he will spend time playing with his phone. I understand that he is working hard for the family and he needs his own time to play games or see videos but i cant help feeling that my life without him made no difference. over these years he changed a lot in terms of temper and we quarrelled a lot until now we dont even care to say anything to each other. I kept asking myself if this is the man i love and if i will be happier to walk out of his marriage. I feel really lost. I held on becuz of the kids but im not happy every single day.

I have the same feeling with u .. sometime I try to talk but he may not answer but slowly I get use to it maybe because I really keep myself super busy with my three kids when at night I will just watch k drama on my HP ... he also seldom bring kids out but I dun care I just do my part .... I tell myself as long as he dun betray me n give us the support that more then enough cause at least he didn't force me to go work as he know I want to spend all my time with my kids . sometime we just have to give n take look at the kids n as a mother for me I feel that my kids are more important then anything n I also believe some day this guy the father of my kids will change ... believe n be positve k . guys normally are like tat maybe that have some problem bit dun wan let us know so treat it as they act cool k