My husband and i seldom see each other due to work schedule and he seldom have time for the kids. We did not have any topic to talk about even when we got the chance to talk. If he is on leave he will spend time playing with his phone. I understand that he is working hard for the family and he needs his own time to play games or see videos but i cant help feeling that my life without him made no difference. over these years he changed a lot in terms of temper and we quarrelled a lot until now we dont even care to say anything to each other. I kept asking myself if this is the man i love and if i will be happier to walk out of his marriage. I feel really lost. I held on becuz of the kids but im not happy every single day.

From how you described Ur relationship, I can strongly feel u do still love him. If not you wouldn't even bother that he doesn't have time for you or ur kids. I seriously advise u should talk to him about this when u have the chance. Be it that it might end up in a quarrel but at least u initiated to address the problem. Believe me ur hubby will really go think about it. As I've used this method and it works. Men seem not to bother but they really will go think about the problem when we bring it up. There have to be someone to start the discussion if not the problem will forever be there unsolved. Don't give up on marriage easily. It doesn't come easy but I believe, if u take the first step, everything will be half solved. Good luck.