My husband and i seldom see each other due to work schedule and he seldom have time for the kids. We did not have any topic to talk about even when we got the chance to talk. If he is on leave he will spend time playing with his phone. I understand that he is working hard for the family and he needs his own time to play games or see videos but i cant help feeling that my life without him made no difference. over these years he changed a lot in terms of temper and we quarrelled a lot until now we dont even care to say anything to each other. I kept asking myself if this is the man i love and if i will be happier to walk out of his marriage. I feel really lost. I held on becuz of the kids but im not happy every single day.

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It's really upsetting to hear that. Have you tried talking to him calmly about the problem you guys are facing? Communication is very important in a marriage or to keep a relationship going. You might think he's busy with work or games so you left him alone go do his stuffs but on the other hand he might thinks that you can't be bothered with him and doesn't even talk to him. It takes two hands to clap, so try communicating with your husband. Of course I do understand it could be hard in the beginning, if not you could also open a topic on counselling too. I hope these helps and please be positive towards your marriage!

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Home Random Talk husband i seldom see each other due work schedule seldom have time kids did not have topic talk about when got chance talk if leave spend time playing with phone i understand that working hard family needs own time play games see videos but i cant help feeling that life without him made difference over these years changed lot in terms temper quarrelled lot until now dont care say anything each other i kept asking myself if man i love if i hap