My husband and i have been quarreling. He doesn't want to listen. He expect me to listen to him . His off days he doesn't look after my lo. He said he needs to go back to work. I trusted him. Until i found out when he come back he went straight to sleep. I can even smell beer in his body. Many times i thinking of divorce. I m telling myself why. If he cheated on me; i will know because he will not have sex. But we had sex. If he doesn't and thats where my suspicious comes. I am ready to raised my daughter alone. I can be both role. Whats the point of having this type of man in my life where he doesn't even help me. I even checked his messages. What ever messages within his friends or colleague. He delete it off. Seriously; i need to ask myself where i stand. Mummy what would you do??

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Based on what you typed, hasn't reach to the must divorced stage. If it's jus quarrelling, I believed many married couple quarrel, some men even cheat on the Wife n get forgiven. I'm not saying u must forgive ur Husband if he really cheats. Anw men can have sex outside n at home without feelin any guilt. But ur situation sounds like there's still hope n solution. He might be annoyed too knowing that u check all his messages. Tell him that it's ok if he hang out w his friends or whatsoever as Long as its not every night or too frequent because each parent should share responsibility for the child too. Maybe he's afraid to tell u, hence he has to lie? Can u plan a day out on his off day so that he knows what to do? Alternatively, go for marriage Counselling.

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Home Random Talk husband i hv been quarreling doesnt want listen expect listen him off days doesnt look after lo said needs go back work i trusted him until i found out when cone back went straight sleep i smell beer in body many times i thinking divource i m twlling myself why if cheated i know because not hv sex but had sex if doesnt thats where suspicious comesi ready raised dau alone i both role whats point having type man in life where doesnt