My husband and i have been quarreling. He doesn't want to listen. He expect me to listen to him . His off days he doesn't look after my lo. He said he needs to go back to work. I trusted him. Until i found out when he come back he went straight to sleep. I can even smell beer in his body. Many times i thinking of divorce. I m telling myself why. If he cheated on me; i will know because he will not have sex. But we had sex. If he doesn't and thats where my suspicious comes. I am ready to raised my daughter alone. I can be both role. Whats the point of having this type of man in my life where he doesn't even help me. I even checked his messages. What ever messages within his friends or colleague. He delete it off. Seriously; i need to ask myself where i stand. Mummy what would you do??

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It's common for dads to be "hands off"... since the beginning of time so it's somehow imprinted on them now. Instead of quarrelling and confrontation (guys hate being 'confronted'), perhaps you can sit down with him and have a proper discussion - areas that you feel like you need help and hope that he can be more involved. Also voice out your insecurities... he may be defensive at first, but do ask him to hear you out before making any further remarks. No problems are ever resolved through anger (quarrelling). Marriage counselling is a good idea too.

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Home Random Talk husband i hv been quarreling doesnt want listen expect listen him off days doesnt look after lo said needs go back work i trusted him until i found out when cone back went straight sleep i smell beer in body many times i thinking divource i m twlling myself why if cheated i know because not hv sex but had sex if doesnt thats where suspicious comesi ready raised dau alone i both role whats point having type man in life where doesnt