My husband and i have been quarreling. He doesn't want to listen. He expect me to listen to him . His off days he doesn't look after my lo. He said he needs to go back to work. I trusted him. Until i found out when he come back he went straight to sleep. I can even smell beer in his body. Many times i thinking of divorce. I m telling myself why. If he cheated on me; i will know because he will not have sex. But we had sex. If he doesn't and thats where my suspicious comes. I am ready to raised my daughter alone. I can be both role. Whats the point of having this type of man in my life where he doesn't even help me. I even checked his messages. What ever messages within his friends or colleague. He delete it off. Seriously; i need to ask myself where i stand. Mummy what would you do??

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Have an open conversation with him. Perhaps he faces difficulty at work too that leads him to behave as such.... From the discussion do talk about expectations you have for each other and also what are the compromise that both of u are willing to take to improve the situation. Have an open mind before u have the disccusion so that it'll be an effective one U may also get a close mutual friend that are neutral and not bias to mediate the talk as well if u are worried u cannot control the emotion of the discussion....

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Home Random Talk husband i hv been quarreling doesnt want listen expect listen him off days doesnt look after lo said needs go back work i trusted him until i found out when cone back went straight sleep i smell beer in body many times i thinking divource i m twlling myself why if cheated i know because not hv sex but had sex if doesnt thats where suspicious comesi ready raised dau alone i both role whats point having type man in life where doesnt