Hi Anon this is called gaslighting ie making you feel like you're in the wrong to hide his guilt and shame. It's a huge red flag in any relationship. Not sure if he has cheated physically yet but he definitely has the intention to. Plus in my view using tinder and talking to other girls is already considered emotional cheating. Can you really trust him after this? You deserve much, much better than this. I'm so sorry this happened to you but I hope you can be strong and walk away!
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