How do other mums do it? I am so so so exhausted taking care of my little munchkin. I am a ftwm. Leave the child in childcare Mon - fri and weekend take care of him. Weekends are just so exhausting as I don't have much family help. How do you find time to rest?

I'm a ftwm with two kids. Hubby will send them to cc n bring them in the evening. I gotta rush home to cook,get dinner ready before 7.30pm. Then hubby will go work at 8plus. My 4yo will help tc of my 2yo so that I can quickly finish up what I need to do then rest on sofa watch tv n play with kids. Husband n I will split housework but ofc if at times he is tired I do more Lor but when I need help he will surely help me. I manage my time well n my kids both very independent so they Wun disturb me when they know I'm Busy. Like this I can do things fast have more time to rest & relax. I make sure by 10, we r ready to zzz. Multitasking is the keyword I think I'm immune to it so I dun really feel very tired. Instead I enjoy been so busy esp when it comes to interacting, playing with kids, taking good care of Husband n kids and keeping my house clean. Actually at times I'm quite proud of myself lol! With such a busy schedule I can yet stay focus & perform well in everything I do! Motivation is also very important. Saturdays will either bring kids to my grandpa place or they will come to my place to visit the kids. Sunday morning will be bonding time with hubby & kiddos. Sunday's usually stay home as I love to cook so I will utilise my weekend time to whip up 'special request' dishes by kids or Husband whereby I need longer time to prepare. To be honest hard to have lots of time to rest but weekdays I will make sure we sleep at 10plus 11 to Ensure we have ample sleep. It's important to organise time effectively so that u can get some rest.