How do other mums do it? I am so so so exhausted taking care of my little munchkin. I am a ftwm. Leave the child in childcare Mon - fri and weekend take care of him. Weekends are just so exhausting as I don't have much family help. How do you find time to rest?

I'm a FTWM too. My mum looks aft LO in the day and we will pack dinner back for ourselves and take over from mum aft work. Weekend will look after her ourselves with MIL'S help. Hardly have time to rest as LO is still DL and is sticky to me. But I enjoy spending time with LO and because she needs me, that gives me the energy to not feel so tired. Perhaps you can take leave during weekdays to take a rest, sleep or go out and relax.