Baby's Gender

Hi! Since Tourism grad ako, I have a little background in different nationalities' traditions. And I do understand na traditional Chinese way ang susundin mo kasi gusto mo tumira sa China. Harsh truth is one child policy still exists don kaya I know you're hoping for the best for your child to be accepted in China (at boy lang usually ang inaaccept na first born dahil sila ang tagapagmana as far as I know). And in all honesty, wala namang natural way para makabuo ka ng baby na kung anong gender gusto mo, unless magpa surrogate ka. So kung gusto mo mag conceive naturally, accept what God's gift and don't transfer na lang sa China kung tingin mo di sya iaccept don. Ikaw ang mag adjust sa baby, di yung baby yung mag aadjust sayo. Or else, spend grands to perform surrogacy para makabuo ka ng baby boy.

Chinese din LIP ko, naku2x. And i am 27 weeks pregnant baby girl.. Baby boy lang daw? Sana nung pinost mo inisip mo muna hindinporket chinese baby boy.na.agad? Dahil bakit? Dahil sa negosyo? Grabi.naman post mo ate. Chinese din LIP ko, pure pinay ako. Pero babae po.itong pinagbubuntis ko.. Suggest ko lang po sayo, hindi ako naniniwala na kapag chinese kailangan baby.mo.is lalaki. Para matanggap nila. A big no po. NASA SAYO PO YAN kung papalakihin mong TAMAD ang.magiging baby mo. Dahil kung tamad yan paglaki kahit.baby boy pa yan. Wala parin kwenta sa mga.chinese yan. Nasa magulang lang yan kung paano dalhin yung anak mo sa pagpapalaki. Dahil.ang.gusto nang mga chinese MASIPAG po. Grabi naman yang post mo. Ibig sabihin kung bby girl yan anung gagawin mo? Just sharing lang dahil pure chinese din LIP ko.

mommy, based po sa mga nbsa ko, kung ang conceived nyo is 4 days before ovulation, babae po ang magi2ng baby nyo.. then, kung after ovulation ang conceived nyo boy nman po ang magi2ng baby nyo.. so, magka2ron n po kau ng idea kung boy or girl ang baby as long as tanda nyo ang ovulation and conception nyo ni husband.. pero kung hindi, sa ultrasound nyo lang po mala2man kung boy or girl ang baby nyo.. try to watch youtube po.. PS: I understand your tradition.. please don't get me wrong, I'm not against you.. but what if baby girl ang nsa sinapu2nan mo? hindi mo b sya mata2nggap? remember, kung hindi mo piniling maging babae ang anak mo, mas lalong hindi pinili ng anak mo na maging magulang k nya.. who knows, kung maging girl ang anak mo sya p maging lucky charm nyo.. ☺️

My dad's Chinese and I happen to be the only girl sa aming 8 na magkakapatid. Pero hindi ako spoiled kasi nga mas pinahahalagahan ang mga anak na lalaki kesa babae. And let me tell you na sa totoo lang, kahit ako ang nagiisang girl, ako lang ang nagdala ng pride at honor sa pamilya namin at nagdala ng suwerte sa tatay kong Intsik. My Dad died in 2016 of colon cancer at ako lang ang anak nyang naasahang umako lahat ng gastos from colonoscopy hanggang sa mamatay hanggang sa mailibing magpahanggang sa ngayon. Mas may bayag pa ako kesa sa 7 kong kapatid na lalaki. Kaya be careful what you wish for. Baka lalaki nga lumabas sayo pero suwail at batugan naman. Wala rin. 🤪

Once I asked my obgyne howb can i assure that my second baby will be a boy. Boy naman gusto nmin kc girl na yung 1st baby nmin. I am looking forward that she will advised me some techniques or scientifically based answer, but she didn't. Instead, she answered me with a smile and said, alam mo, doctor ako at may 2 anak na lalaki. Gusto ko sana babae yung pangalawa, pero lalaki pa rin. Doctor ako pero si God pa rin ang magdedecide whether your baby will be a boy or girl. God is the creator of life. Every baby is a blessing and gift from above. No matter what will be the gender of our baby, we should be thankful. We can pray and ask God to give us baby boy, but at the end, still may His will be done.

There isn't any assurance when it comes to the gender of your baby. There is no scientific method that is 100% guaranteed. There are, however, theories that you can try. My OB gave us a schedule of when to have sex and how deep my husband should ejaculate to get higher chances (emphasis on chances) of having the gender we like. It worked for us. Better talk to your OB. Nevertheless, a baby is a blessing no matter what gender. Sana marealize mo yan and matanggap mo muna bago ka mabuntis. Hindi pwedeng kapag babae anak mo, aayawan mo lang. Hindi yan manika. Prepare mo lang muna mindset mo bago ka mag-decide na talagang mag-aanak ka na.

"Chinese po kami baby boy only" ANG O.A PO nang post niyo talaga. Bakit ikaw babae ka, chinese ka sabi mo? 🤣🤣 ate, pure chinese po yung LIP Ko ako naman po pure po.na pinay.. Buntis ako baby girl., wala naman silang sinabi na dapat baby boy dahil chinese yung lahi nila.. Oh baka feeling chinese kalang? Matagal ko na kasama family LIP ko. Wala akong naririnig na ganyan. As long as masipag yun doon bilib ang mga chinese, yung madiskarte. Hindi po yung dapat anak mo is lalaki lang talaga. NO NO NO ate, hindi ako naniniwala sayo ka o.a han mo lang yan.

Minsan mga tinatanung d2 wlang ka sense2,tas mg hihide ng name,dpat ipakta ang mukha hndi ung nakatago tas prang mga temang qung mg share at mghingi ng advice,alam mu qung sinu ka mang chinese ka,dun k mkipag usap sa kapwa mu chinese ng kau2 dn mgkaintndhan hndi d2 kz kadlasan d2 pinoy mgkaiba tau ng paniniwla,kmi kz naniniwala qung anu ang ibgay n God tangapin ng maluwag s dib2 kz khit anu p gender nun anak mu parn un,gets mu te?😡qung d mu ma gets usap tau sa fb yan account q😜😛😂namimili ng gender eh kaloka ka😁

Nasa tradition na yata talaga ng Chinese ang ganun, kapag first born dapat boy or ayaw talaga ng girl maybe discrimination na rin kase, we all Chinese na magagaling sila sa business at dapat boy ang magmamana. Idk kung fact ba, please correct me if I'm wrong. At max of 2 yung anak. I had friends who I met in games na chinese, but they are living in MY because his sister is the first born at 2 lang sila... Respeto nalang po sana sa tradisyon, kultura at nasyonalidad. 🙂

If you want to make sure to have a son then you should have done artificial insemination. Natural conception will give you 50% chance of having a boy. Gosh, nstress ako magEnglish... We women are just receiving their sperm. Your husband's sperm will determine your baby's gender. You are already pregnant, now it's too late to give you advice. The gender of your baby is already determined the time you are conceived. Good luck.