Pantang after Miscarriage

i was around 4-6weeks pregnant when i lost my first child. 6weeks if calculate from my last menstrual cycle but i never had sex around that time.only 1 time which was 6days before my period.so if i calculate from 6days before my period its supposed to be 4weeks.dc?? i was bleeding and having backpain so i went to hkl.i was at epau.they did vaginal examination the insert a cylinder thing inside my vagina because they cant see anything due to lots of blood.but that time i know i wasnt bleeding that heavy.they then use cotton to wipe off the blood inside to see if there is anything.they use like a scissors then cotton. after that they ask me wait for m.o for scan. i asked them if my anak gugur they smile like laughing and say no. i waited for like 1hour at epau and the pain grew stronger and i felt like i was going to faint and it become so hot and i was sweating. i got up and ask for painkiller but they ask to wait for m.o. i sat back at the chair then i think like 3secs i decide to pla