pregnant at 16

how do i cope with teenage pregnancy ?

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It might be tough at first. But you will surely get over it. I was 17 when i'm pregnant w my first child. I went through so much & was sent for abortion twice but i ran away from home because i was already 3 months+ coming 4 months at that time of point. Alot of things really got into my way. Being a single mum was never easy. But i've make it through. I stayed strong for myself and my baby, till the day he went away forever. It's been 2 years+ ever since he left. No one would ever want be feeling like me. But allah loves him more than i do. Even he's far away but he's always close to my heart. And after 2 years + suffering from depression. I was given another chance to be pregnant again. And now i'm 11 weeks & 2 days. No matter what happen, your parents will always support you. They might not be able to accept things at first, but they'll surely accept things one day. Stay strong young mummy!✨🌺

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inshaallah , thru this journey allah will bless you and any pregnant mummy out there like me , im only 16 and currently 9 weeks i rlly wanna keep this child just tht theres so much getting into the way

It’s tough but worth it. I got pregnant at 21, unmarried & the father of my child disappeared on me. I was scared of telling my parents & moved out of the house. When I finally gathered the courage to tell my parents, they were crazy angry. But parents, no matter how angry they were, they still supported me. At the same time, I did 2 part time jobs to tide thru. It wasn’t easy but I gave birth to a beautiful angel & I have a stable income now. Tough times don’t last, tough people do. Hang in there! You can also turn to so many organizations. ❤️

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At this age, your family’s support is the most important support that you need. I was pregnant at 19 and was unmarried. I was scared to let my parents know so I moved out from our home. However, no matter how angry my family was, they looked for me and brought me back home. While pregnant, I did part time job as a sales clerk so I can pay for my delivery, and not fully depend on my family. My family was behind me every step of the way. You also have to be strong yourself.

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Hi dear, Totally understand your fears and many more that runs in your mind. I got pregnant at 18 had no one to support me too. Everyone neglected me. I was homeless. But I found courage for my baby and fight through it. Not bothered about anyone with negative remarks. I'm 28 now, I see myself as a successful person, mother of 1 beautiful princess and happily married. Don't lose hope and ask yourself what your heart desires, stay strong dearest. Hugs!

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Do look for teenage support group or talk it out with your family / guy's family . My first pregnancy was when Im 15, but got forced to abort . Now I am 18, all is good as of now , have yet to tell my parents ( becoz im worried about getting forced to abort again ) but then either way, stay strong for yourself & the baby!! ❤️ I am sure there's many support groups out there to help ! We are all here as well!

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I was preg at 17 and a mom at 18 , it’s not as scary as it sounds like , get support from family and friends and I was seeing Kkh through my pregnancy , they have a clinic specially for teen moms and they do counselling also and when you’re there you won’t feel alone anymore, try to stay as positive as you can , you can do it !!

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You can reach out to an Organisation called Babes (babes.org.sg) it’s an Organisation to help pregnant teens specifically. You ain’t alone and a lot people are they out there to help you so don’t be afraid. Do ask more questions here if u need more help.

http://babes.org.sg/ maybe you wanna try this. im not sure but no harm trying for extra support to talk to and family is most impt for support. stay strong mummy ❤️

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Have to consult your parents if they would be willing to coshare the parenting with you. Hard to take care of a child when you're still a child yourself

Hey, First of all be strong as everything will be fine. Also, join Babes group and talk to your family & friends.