Seems like Mil will want alot of time w baby

How do you guys cope with MIL who seems to want to see baby all the time? Im currently in my last trimester, and my MIL is already asking us to have meals more often. We usually have dinner once every weekend (appx 4 hours), and now, she's been asking us whether want to have lunch/dinner on other days. The last week, she asked whether want to have lunch or dinner on 3 consecutive days! We only had dinner 1 day as we had doc appointment and were very tired. I honestly don't mind visiting more often or longer hours when baby comes but not too much as we will be so tired and we want baby to have a routine. Also, we treasure our privacy at home too. How do you guys manage such a situation?

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I used to see my PIL 2-3x a monthafter getting married. After I give birth I see them 2 - 3x a week. Haha they want to see their grandchild which I can understand. Now my MIL comes over to our house to oversee the helper on weekdays. Even then they might come over on Sunday as well. Usually stay till 7 plus. Have to get used to it. But seeing them building a close bond with baby it is worth it. If my parents stay nearer it will probably be the same as well. Have to make it clear that you are the mum and while you appreciate their advise you choose your parenting style. Hint subtly if there's anything you don't like or get your husband to tell them.

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4y ago

Oh gosh haha ya I can understand they wanna see their grandchild but I cannot imagine so frequent! Haha. Thanks for the tip!