How would you all feel if your husband tells you that his female cousin is equally as important as you are to him? I find that she has been texting him very often. On the surface it seems like she is asking opinion. But I think it is too much. They have so many cousin why she keep coming to my husband? So we quarrel today and I ask my husband if she is equally important than me as your wife. He actually say YES!!! I feel like divorcing this heartless man who never treasure me at all after so many years of marriage.