How do you develop your child's EQ?

Hello, I develop her EQ by not only appreciating her triumph but also by applauding her when she faces her failure without any shame. I actually play a lot of activities with her and most of them have winning and losing as the end thing, and she is growing up seeing me behave calmly even when I lose. She sees that when I lose I do not cry or make a face but I say with much more grit and determination that I am going to better this time. And it does not necessarily mean winning. So, we keep doing little things at home where not only she but I also happen to develop my EQ.