Help

My helper likes to comment like *oh baby so poor thing, this mommy dont do this and that for u* right in front of me which makes me uncomfortable. She touch my LO also made me uneasy. I never get confinement lady or even let her take care of the kid coz i have trust issue. i find it better to take care of my baby myself esp when he’s only a month old. Plus she’s not even competent with house work. I dont want to tell her off coz she’s older than me. Any advice ?